Imagine you’re playing basketball and you keep missing your shots. Your friend comes over and says, “Hey, I noticed you’re not following through with your wrist. If you flick your wrist at the end, you’ll make more shots.” That’s called constructive criticism—your friend is trying to help you get better!

Now imagine a different friend who just says, “You’re so awesome! You’re the best basketball player ever!” even though you keep missing. Which friend is really helping you? The first one, right? Even though it might sting a little to hear that you’re doing something wrong, that friend’s advice will actually help you improve!

The Bible talks about two kinds of people: wise people and fools. A wise person is someone who listens when others correct them and learns from it. A fool is someone who refuses to listen and just wants everyone to tell them how great they are!

King Solomon was the wisest person who ever lived (except for Jesus!). He said it’s way better to listen to correction from a wise person than to listen to the fake praise of fools. Why? Because correction helps us grow, learn, and get better! Fake praise just keeps us stuck making the same mistakes over and over.

Take Action: Think about the last time someone corrected you—maybe your parent, teacher, or coach. Did you get defensive and argue? Or did you listen and try to learn? This week when someone gives you correction (as long as it’s from someone who cares about you), try saying, “Thank you for helping me get better.” Remember, the people who correct you aren’t trying to be mean—they’re trying to help you become your best self!